Sex Questions, Answered!

how should a teen go about getting someone random to have sex with them, without any relationship,

Wed, 22 May 2013 16:51:20 -0400

Make yourself available. Put yourself out there. Go to a hangout place and give out your phone number. Meet people.

Communicate your needs/wants. Make sure that your partner has the same needs/wants as you. That’s the most important thing. Then, figure out the details from there.

You're a sex goddess and have saved me so many times thank you!! <3

Wed, 22 May 2013 16:50:07 -0400

Hahaha! This blog wouldn’t exist without you, so thank YOU!!! I’m happy to have helped! <3

Is it normal for your labia minora to protrude out of your labia majora?

Tue, 21 May 2013 20:15:24 -0400

Yep!

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Mon, 20 May 2013 22:01:42 -0400

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i haven't had my period in 36-ish days but all i did was get fingered, eh. why?

Mon, 20 May 2013 21:50:45 -0400

I can’t tell ya! It could be from a number of things. You may just have an irregular period. If you don’t and you’re worried, ask your doctor.

if you have sex with a guy on your period will you get blood on his dick

Mon, 20 May 2013 10:56:10 -0400

Probably. It depends on how heavy your flow is, sometimes when you are aroused it will lessen the blood flow and help with that.

If you are going to have sex on your period, make sure to use a condom! It’s important to protect the girl from pregnancy (not impossible if you have sex on your period) and to protect the boy from getting any blood in his penis. Make sure to wash up well afterwards too.

I'm worried I'm pregnant and don't know how to tell the father. We have only been together for 2 months

Mon, 20 May 2013 10:53:51 -0400

Find out if you’re really pregnant first. If you are, sit him down in a private place and tell him. Give him time to react, talk about it, and you two will figure things out from there.

do you think it's normal for a 15 year old girl to masterbate

Mon, 20 May 2013 10:52:14 -0400

Yes.

Hi there! So majority of the time when my boyfriend and I have sex a warm clear liquid comes out of my vagina. A lot of it, it usually soaks the bed. I thought it was me squirting but it smells kinda like urine. Could I be peeing instead of having and orgasm?

Sun, 19 May 2013 19:07:49 -0400

It’s possible that you’re squirting. The liquid is normal during orgasm and sexual activity, and it may smell like urine but that doesn’t make it urine. Especially if its clear. Pay attention to the color of your urine and if it doesn’t match then don’t worry about it.

Try going to the bathroom and making sure to empty your bladder completely before having sex.

it was my first time having sex. can it mess up your period with out you being pregnant, like hormonally? and my breasts are very tender.

Sun, 19 May 2013 19:04:58 -0400

It’s possible, but just having sex can’t alter your hormones that much. It could be a number of other things, but if you weren’t protected, I would look into getting a pregnancy test.

is it okay for a guy to want to taste his own cum? Should he taste his own cum? Does that make him kinda gay in a way if he does?

Sun, 19 May 2013 19:03:43 -0400

Absolutely not! If tasting yourself is gay, wouldn’t that make masturbation gay as well? It means you’re curious. And that is perfectly normal. And if you like it, okay. It doesn’t mean anything.

Who you are attracted to is what determines your sexuality. Nothing else.

It was my first time having sex and his first time in a long while and he finished way before me. Is there a way he can last longer

Sat, 18 May 2013 19:33:22 -0400

Every time he gets close, stop until the feeling goes away. You can use this time to switch positions so it doesn’t get awkward.

He can also practice this technique while he masturbates and that will help too.

is there a difference between cumming and an orgasm for a woman

Sat, 18 May 2013 19:32:00 -0400

No.

So me and my bf were having sex & as he took it out the condom was still stuck in me and he blew on his shirt, is there any way anything bad could happen?

Sat, 18 May 2013 19:31:46 -0400

I see no way any sperm could’ve made its way into your vagina.

Hey, I'm almost turning 18, and my penis is still between 4-5 inches. Do you think I can still grow? When do guys stop growing?

Thu, 16 May 2013 00:31:29 -0400

Typically you keep growing until anywhere from 18 to 25. It really depends on the person and their health/genes, though!

what age is too young to get a vibrator or how old should you be

Thu, 16 May 2013 00:29:34 -0400

You must be 18 years old to enter a sex shop. You can get vibrators elsewhere, but you would have to check with that particular store’s rules.

how long after unprotected sex can i take a pregnancy test?

Thu, 16 May 2013 00:27:20 -0400

It depends on the test. Most over-the-counter pregnancy tests are 10 days, but some can be taken earlier. I would go to the store and look at the box, it usually says right on it.

How do get rid of razor burn down there

Thu, 16 May 2013 00:26:35 -0400

Don’t scratch! It might lead to infection.

Let your hair grow out a little before shaving again.

Look for a skincare product designed for razor burn. Something that contains salicylic acid, glycolic acid, witch hazel, aloe, or any combination of these ingredients.

If it is already infected, treat it with antibacterial cream.

If it doesn’t go away within a few weeks, see a dermatologist.

How to prevent razor burn: use a sharp, clean razor, don’t shave every day, gently exfoliate (maybe on a day you don’t shave, as skin can be extra sensitive), use shaving cream, and shave in the same direction the hair is growing.

Hey, well I'm a virgin and I'm not planing on having sex till a long Time. What can I do with my boyfriend to frisk things up other than sex to please him and myself while still being a virgin I'm scared he won't be satisfied and get bored

Wed, 15 May 2013 16:28:30 -0400

You can do things with hands and mouths, like oral, mutual masturbation (handjobs/fingering), making out, dry humping, necking, massage, etc.

And don’t be scared! Relationships shouldn’t be about keeping the other person around because you’re scared of losing them, it should be about enjoying their company. Relax.

ive been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. i love him and we have great sex, but he doesnt share any of fetishes and he doesnt 'go down on me'. i have no idea what to do because i refuse to push into doing something hes not comfortable with but i have needs that he wont/cant satisfy. what do i do :-(

Wed, 15 May 2013 16:28:23 -0400

Figure out why he feels uncomfortable with these things and you’ll figure out what to do about it. Talk to him and find out why he doesn’t want to go down on you. You can usually work it out once you start talking!