Sex Questions, Answered! • I’m really attracted to my boyfriend and so in love with him, but every time we have sex I can’t have an orgasm. (I always orgasm when I masturbate) I really enjoy having sex with him but I can never come. I usually feel like I am right at the point and about to orgasm but it goes away. :( I am starting to feel like there is something wrong with me and I think it’s making him frustrated. Do you have any tips for me on how to achieve orgasm?

I'm really attracted to my boyfriend and so in love with him, but every time we have sex I can't have an orgasm. (I always orgasm when I masturbate) I really enjoy having sex with him but I can never come. I usually feel like I am right at the point and about to orgasm but it goes away. :( I am starting to feel like there is something wrong with me and I think it's making him frustrated. Do you have any tips for me on how to achieve orgasm?

Anonymous

Try to replicate whatever you do while masturbating in the bedroom. Or maybe masturbate in front of your boyfriend to show him what you like.

It’s very common for women to not be able to orgasm during sex. A lot of women require manual stimulation. There is nothing wrong with that! Or maybe you just need to experiment a little more. But there is absolutely nothing wrong with you.

If you need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm, then do that. If you hit the G-spot while masturbating, then aim for positions that hit it. Or have him finger you. Just keep trying different things, it might take a little bit of experimentation to get it down.

Good luck! :)