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How do I hook up and have sex in step by step I need to know I am a girl what do do step by step
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This process is different depending on the people involved, it’s not really something I can write out step-by-step. 

Some basics: Just be flirty and make your intentions known! If you let the person know you’re interested, they’ll let you know if they are too and you can take it from there. Just make sure you’re both on the same page, make sure they know what you want from them and make sure you’re both comfortable.

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Is it dangerous to use ice when you masturbate? (girl)
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As long as there is blood flowing in the area, nope! It’s a good idea to also put a towel or two down so when it melts it’s easy to clean up. 

And this works for either guys or girls, just in case any guys were wondering the same thing.

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When i eat out my girlfriend, how do i know when she climaxes or has an orgasm? how can i make her "squirt"
Anonymous
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You’ll know that she’s climaxing when her muscles start contracting. Her vaginal fluids can increase as well, and she may become louder. If you’re having a hard time telling when that is though, you can just ask her to tell you when she’s close, about to finish, finishing, etc. 

Squirting isn’t something everyone can do and sometimes it takes practice, so just be aware of that. It’s most commonly done by stimulation of the G-spot, which is an area in the vagina about 1-2 inches in on the upper wall (the wall closest to her stomach). It can be stimulated by inserting a finger or two, palm up, gently rubbing it in a “come here” motion. The G-spot may feel like a rougher patch of skin in the vagina.

Incorporating this during oral sex is a great idea, but it might take some practice for you to be able to focus on everything you’re doing at once.

If you need more tips, make sure to check out my “FAQ” and “How-To” pages. If you don’t find what you need there, send me an ask!

Hope this helped! :)


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Do you think guys really care about what girls boobs look like? Mine are kinda saggy only cause they're kind of big...but I'm really afraid when a guy see's my boobs he'll be really grossed out. any thoughts?
Anonymous
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Some guys probably do care, but I think to most guys boobs are boobs. I’ve never met a guy that was picky about boobs. And if you’ve got ‘em, flaunt ‘em! Most bigger boobs tend to be at least a little saggy, since there’s more weight. But I really doubt any guy would mind!

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when you are fooling around with a guy in bed what are the things they like us to do? make you give some tips please
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This is difficult to answer in specifics because every guy is different. So what you do in bed really depends on who you’re with and what you’re comfortable doing.

It’s also difficult to answer because I’m not really sure what kind of tips you’re looking for. I do have hand job and blow job tips in my “How-To” section if you’d like to look those up.

You can ask me a more specified question so I know exactly what you’re looking for or you can just figure out what your guy likes either by trying different things (do whatever feels best/most natural) or asking him what he likes.

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Okay well my boyfriend and i had our first time sex last friday night and i know that ur suppose to bleed the first time. But im only bleeding when i pee but juss in the morning & then for the rest of the day i juss c blood when i wipe down there when i pee. So i checked and i saw that might be a small tear or cut. Will it heal on its own or wut?? Im very confused. Plz responed and fast as possible
Anonymous
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If you get a cut on your vagina it could easily get infected. I would talk to your doctor about that as soon as possible so they can look at it and give you more information and probably give you something to put on it to help it heal.

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I was suppose to get my period on the 20th but it never came, so my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time and he used and condom and didn't ejaculate and I still haven't gotten my period. Could I be pregnant?
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No, not of you were protected and he didn’t ejaculate. You could be having a late period due to a number of other things, of you don’t get it in another week I would talk to your doctor.

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I've been sexually active for 3 years, and on birth control pills for 2 years. Recently, after going a period of 3 months without having sex, I began to bleed during intercourse even though my period is not due until next week. Should I be concerned about possible STDs or other conditions?
Anonymous
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Your body may just not be used to intercourse after going through a period without it, but I would talk to your doctor about it just to make sure.

I doubt that it’s sexually transmitted infections, but like I said, just talk to your doctor about it and they will be able to help you more than I can.

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when you are having sex is it normal not to talk? do guys like us to say something?
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I think it really depends on the couple as to the amount of talking but communication is important! You should tell him when something feels good, when something feels bad, what you want to try, etc.

So yes, you should talk!

:)


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any tips for how to get rid of pimples and stretch marks on my girlfriends ass?
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Depends on her skin type, but pimples should go away as long as she washes, exfoliates, and lightly moisturizes. 

Stretch marks will sometimes fade over time or if she moisturizes, but they may not fade at all, so I would just embrace them!

:)